Diversion Tatics

Using atom model for this entry.
Whereby, I represent the interaction a human has to the world as akin to that of an atom.

Why do I think there are similarities.

Well firstly the atom is small and is influenced by many factors from the outside world.

Secondly, it has many layers just like Human psyche. For instance, the different ego shells that we use to define to self in our surroundings.

Now in the model, the outer world will judge  not by the nucleus but by the outer edge. Some lucky friends may learn more about your other shells. But for the most part, it will be a battle between the outer shell and the people on the outside.

This creates a number of potential problems:
- Do we search the world to find more people that like our outer shell /nuclues
- Do we just be own individual and just ignore the battle cries from the other
- Do we let down our guard and trust people will see you and nucleus is good
- Is pain good or bad and in what situation 

How about if lacking in confidence of what is the right. I noticed the comment fake to you make it used a lot. Is there potentially a lot more people doing this then we think. For instance could the people that say that they are really authentic actually trying to divert people from a void that they do not know how to handle things.

How about using diversion tatics. This is where you essentially play out your cards down in a way that the people you don't want stay away and the one you are likely to trust stay.

There probably lots of ways this can be done but just as an example. - Say you get a devil tattoo. the people that see the outer shell may see you as some sort of bad person. The tattoo is actually irrelevant to your character (As long as you have not convinced your nucleus the same thing). So now just left with the people genuine interested in learning.

In the same way the person may have many have countless diversion tactics up there sleeve. And so it good for self protection. The risk however is that in the jumping and dancing around you actually miss out on the chance to genuinely connect. As ultimately, other people will judge you on character just as much as the vice versa.